Young and Out
Out or still questioning?
Connect with peers of 12 t / m 18 year at our monthly Jong&Out meetings!
Meetings
for en by young people
Every last Sunday of the month we organize fun activities for queer young people
During such an activity you can have a nice chat about everyday things, or you can share your feelings and experiences with each other.
What kind of activities are organized then? This of course depends entirely on you, because Jong&Out is for and by young people! Think of watching a movie, going somewhere, gaming on the Switch, everything you want.
Are you coming over?
Let us know you're coming or would like to come by by sending a message!
Nervous?
It is quite something to join a group full of strangers for the first time, especially if you are not sure yourself yet. Fortunately, we make it easy to connect.
1. Get to know us
You can simply message the coordinators to discuss your nerves, concerns, or questions. This way you know what to expect and you can step in with more confidence!
2. Welcome to the group
If you're thinking about participating, you can also sign up for our Whatsapp group, so you can get to know us a bit and talk to the people who come more often.
3. Come by
Every last Sunday of the month we organize a meeting with a varying activity from 13:00 to 17:00. Sign up and come by, then you will meet the whole group in real life!
Our counselors
These people are committed to making it another successful Sunday!
Sun
He/him (26)
“Hi! I'm Dim, I live in Spijkenisse and I work as a behavioral expert in disability care. In my spare time I like to play rugby🏉 and cello. I love music and museums and I like to read (lhbti) books.”
Levi
He/that (25)
“Hi! I’m Levi, and I’m currently studying War&Peace Studies! In my spare time I like gaming, board games, and I also like to cycle!
I like to cook for my friends, and hang out on the couch with my rats after a long day ❤ “
Beautiful white
She/he/he (21)
“Holaaa!! I study science communication and besides that I read too many books (mostly fantasy), love to play TTRPGS like D&D and try to go bouldering weekly (“try”…)
I also love frogs, mushrooms, art, magic, languages, science, microorganisms, plants, space and my partner ❤”
Daan
He/him (25)
“Hi! I'm Daan. In my daily life I work in the hospitality industry and as a volunteer I provide information at secondary schools about subjects that are close to my heart.
In my spare time I like to do sports, be creative (when I can!), read a lot, and can be found at parties or with friends.”
Orion
He/that (25)
“Hello, I'm Orion and I'm the newest mentor! 🐣 I'm 25 and I'm a European Political Science student.
I love cooking, reading, traveling, and also like to be creative (with nail art, makeup, or random crafts) 🌻✨”
faq
Your questions, our answers
Some questions are more common than others, so we have listed a few answers here. Is yours not among them? Please do not hesitate to contact us!
Yes! The supervisors are between 20 and 30 years old, come from The Hague and the surrounding area and, just like you, have experience with coming out or have experienced it from up close. They enjoy working with you to think about what we are going to do and help you arrange it. The supervisors are also assisted and guided by a coordinator, who ensures that everything runs smoothly!
Parents are allowed to attend the first few meetings, they are received in a different place in the building so that the meeting is really only for young people. Parents can always call or email us if they have any questions about anything and to come and have a look.
You don't have to say anything you don't want to, you can even change your name if you feel more comfortable with that! During Jong en Out meetings, the entire building is yours. The doors are closed to visitors and there will be no others in the building besides the supervisors. This way we know for sure that you can spend time with peers in peace.
Naturally! Young & Out groups are organized in many cities, but you can also visit them all!
Stay tuned for upcoming events
Get to know people like you online
Chat in group or private conversations
Everyone's under 18
Verified by ID check.
Everyone's Queer. There's only LGBT+ young people
Everyone's local. All from NL.
Download the J&O app!
An app for LGBT+ young people throughout the Netherlands.
For parents
It can be difficult for young people to talk about their LGBT+ feelings. It helps them to connect with other young people who are going through the same thing.
Jong&Out is a safe environment where young people, regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity, can talk to each other about coming out, problems they encounter as an LGBTI person, love and relationships or about what concerns them. The Jong&Out website and meetings are only accessible to young people up to the age of 18. This is checked and guaranteed.
The meetings are supervised by at least two adult volunteers between the ages of 20 and 30, with each supervisor in possession of a Certificate of Good Conduct (VOG).
During Jong&Out activities there is always room for parents to come together. So you are most welcome to to meet the supervisors.
Do you have any other questions or are you looking for help for yourself or your child? Then take a look at the website of Everybody is different. Here you will find many useful tips to support your child if they have questions about their own sexual orientation, gender identity or sex characteristics.
